Love v/s Relationship - Continued

My very Good friend had written a comment on the Love v/s Relationship post

Here it is :-

Hmmmm....Pyar ko pyar hi rehne do koi naam na do....
But each one of us should experience love...even if it brings pain at times...as Love takes you beyond...it elevates you....
Look at Guruji....always in Love...with every moment of life...with every relation of His.... truly amazing...

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There was a chat between him and me and this is what the post actually meant... in simpler ways

Without experiencing Love at a level of Relationships... You cannot transcend to just the Presence and transcend to Just letting Love be Love... we have to go through this pain again and again to realize that Love and Relationships are two different things... Thought they are connected according to what we see... But actually there is no need to connect... Over a period of time going through this pain someday we realize the marginal difference... It is actually complementing... Without Love Relationship doesn't exist... Even if it exist then also there is no Juice in it... and without Establishing a Relation Love could not be Found... once it is found then the trip is somewhere else... But till it is found we have to go through the pain of separation... May it be Material or for the Divine...

It is a journey... with ups n downs till you reach a plane (equilibrium) inside... No matter what is going on outside there is nothing shakes inside....